Friday, January 27, 2012

Alpha Kappa Alumni Stories

Isn't it crazy to think that we live in a house that was built in 1927? It seems that life back then is not even comparable to how we live today. However, the past women of Alpha Kappa encountered and experienced many of the same things that we do today. They had to do house duties, they had their own unique boy problems, and they love food just as much as we do today. The alumni of Alpha Kappa were even just as silly and crazy as we are. This summer, junior Kristen Anderson contacted Alpha Kappa alumni to hear about their personal stories from their amazing years in Alpha Chi.

What's the good of news if you haven't a sister to share it? -Jenny DeVries

            Over the summer I contacted  some alumni to ask them about their memories of Alpha Kappa and the history of our house.  Linda Shineman helped me compile some memories of ladies in Alpha Kappa.  Alpha Kappa was the only chapter of Alpha Chi Omega to own 2 houses at the same time and after the completion of the second house in 1927, moved into our house that we are in now.  Our earliest memories we have from members start in the 1940’s during WWII.  Members remember mending their sweaters with their own human hair because resources were so scarce. Men were also scarce on college campuses  because they were either in Europe or in the Pacific.  According to Nancy Chase, girls dated seniors at Eugene High School during the war, much to the dismay of the local high school girls.  After the servicemen returned to campus, girls would check to see if they had any wedding bands on, just to be sure.  Some servicemen became houseboys at AXO after the war and Joann McClintic married one who used to sneak her extra desserts.  We all know how much Alpha Kappa like their food, especially bread!     

            Members remember painting their rooms each year as well. Even though all members slept on the sleeping porches  til the 1980’s,  every room had an owner, just like it does now.  The owner stayed in their room all year and changed roommates every term to get to know more girls in the house.  The owners got to personalize their room with their choice of paint and decorations. It was something girls looked forward to each year. Unfortunately for us, the walls have over 100 coats of paint  and are too fragile to paint that often anymore. 

            The members of Alpha Kappa also had house duties just like we do now but were a little different.  Wake up Duty was one of the differences  we have today.  No alarm clocks were allowed on sleeping porches except for the person who had wake up duty.  A map outside the sleeping porches showed where each girl  slept  that they had to wake up.  When doing wake up duty, members had to remember who needed to be shaken, who you barely touched or whispered to and who would try to sneak back into bed and pretend they had never been woken.  Knowing your sisters’ sleeping habits is truly bonding.  Alpha Kappa also used to have Greeter Duty.  That meant a sister  sat at the table in the lobby and answered the door as well as the phone.  Pay phones were located  in booths on the second and third floors where Shauna’s closets are now.  When a call came in, the member on duty contacted the member by pressing her “buzzer signal.”   Mollie Brantley remembers her signal was “long, long, short, long,”  Then the member being called would come to the top of the stairs to see if they were paiged for a phone call or a visitor. Mollie said she liked phone duty because she got to meet and greet all the guys coming to see their girlfriends.  

            Alpha Kappa did not always have  key codes to come inside.  Whoever was on House Duty  would open the door to let girls in. Girls had to be in my 10pm on weeknights and 1 am on weekends in the 1960’s and if they were late they would have to appear before standards, which is like our CR board today.  We all know what the beau room was used for, the only room boyfriends could be in, but members also remember watching  some of their favorite tv shows in there and President Kennedy’s inauguration. 

            Despite the many changes Alpha Kappa has gone through throughout the years, we still carry on some of the same traditions. For example, the awards we receive at the end of the year from the seniors.  Charlotte DuChamp remembers getting the “Worst Haircut” award which she said was well deserved. She also received the “Most Risque Statue” award based on the statue of 2 nudes embracing her boyfriend had given her. She ended up marrying him and they still have the statue today!  Some older members might remember the prank wars we had with Delta Sig before Tri Delta moved in.  Alice Rains Batsche remembers always being wary of the the Phi Delts on the corner.  Apparently they were “very sneaky. They climbed the fire escape, came into the bathroom and threw everyone’s towels on the lawn.  Other times they would throw water balloons at us when we were sunbathing.  They had an old bathtub on their front lawn and would catch unsuspecting freshmen and throw them in the tub.”  Maybe we should start up the prank war with them again?!  Some of our favorite meals in the house are pasta bar night and taco night.  In the ‘60s members also enjoyed taco night and had it every Friday. Another favorite meal was golden treasure meatballs!
 
            When I received so much feedback after my e-mail was sent out, I was so happy that so many alumni were willing to participate.  I am so thankful they were able to share their amazing memories with us and hopefully there will be more to come! All of the memories I received made me feel a closer connection to Alpha Kappa.  Now, especially because I am a live out, I feel like I have a personal connection to the house because I know more about the women that used to live there.

It amazes me to read this and see how similar we are to the previous ladies of Alpha Kappa. It is reassuring to know that Alpha Chi hasn't changed much over the years. We all still share the same values, no matter what point we are at in life. This just goes to show that being a member of Alpha Chi is a lifetime experience instead of just four great years. The women whose stories are in this post still remember their time in Alpha Chi like it was yesterday. I can't wait to be able to contact my sisters now in fifty years and still feel the same bond that I share with them today. Keep looking out for more posts by Kristen about other aspects of our sorority!

LITB,

Chrissy Hardesty

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